Be gracious; complaining doesn't get you anywhere unless you've nicked an artery
Accept help; the feeling of being needed in a crisis is powerful and healing.
Do something, anything, but don't intrude; No means no. When your mouth is open, your ears are closed.
Friendship; Those that will look at you and really see you, know you and love you in spite of becoming an Idiot Savant.
Humor; there is no point in being Eeyore and I'm funnier on paper.
Limit negativity; I don't care about your friends' head injury that turned into a coma turned into a goiter.
Money isn't it; I know a couple of very unhappy people who have all that money can buy, except true friendship and a happy life. Thank god I'm not one of them.
Perfection; who really cares if Gus leaves pawprints on the floor? This is life, not a photo shoot for Sunset Magazine. My house is my nest and I love it.
Hyper organize; I've had to actually create lists and keep track. More than I ever have. It forces me to slow down and pay attention to one task at a time and I really like this.
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| Barn warming party |
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| Sun Mountain hike |
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| Real friends will do anything. Especially after shots of tequila. |
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